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What Are The Rules For A Threesome - Part 1

Indeed, if you ask a man what his sexual fantasies are, most men will probably tell you it's a threesome. Or if he's lucky, he's already on a threesome. But why do most men want a threesome? Because what could be better than two people having sex with you? I mean, of course, there are practical issues involved. For example, you need to find a third partner who wants to be with you. There is, of course, an art form that ensures that no one feels too isolated during the performance. But done right, there are few things more successful than a steaming hot trio.

 

What Are The Rules For A Threesome - Part 1

So how do you get started with a threesome of your own? Thanks to threesome dating websites and apps, finding a threesome has gone from just hoping to meet a willing partner at the bar to choosing from millions of potential partners. But once you've found that special third person, what about now? Would you invite her to your house? What if you don't feel comfortable meeting in person? See what I did? To ensure that all participants have the best threesome experience, we've put together a handy guide to help you. From how to help a person, what things should always be avoided, even how to act after it's all over, here's what you need to know about inviting a third person into your sack.

 

Should you do?
Even though your body and mind are telling you, go. Even if your partner agrees to do so. But under what circumstances should you avoid doing this? Dating coaches from threesome dating sites advise against doing this unless you think it means something good for you and your partner. Dating coaches warn: "if you're going to play threesome, it's better to be in an unserious relationship." "If you've been dating someone for a long time, the threesome could mean the end of a serious relationship -- written in invisible ink that you won't see it until much later. A threesome often ruins a serious relationship, so if you want a serious relationship, make sure you don't jeopardize a valuable one by doing so."

 

So, how do you determine if this situation is really acceptable to your partner? For example, can the two of you openly discuss other sexual topics without embarrassment? If so, things might go much better. Start enjoying the concept of threesome as a sexy secret fantasy between the two of you. Pretend you've decided to have a threesome and choose one person or random person from a group of people you both like. Now assess your partner's reaction. Is she interested in real things? Does this dialogue come from the fact that you two really want to try something new in bed? Or are you two too old-fashioned?" If you answered the latter, note that the threesome is more likely to hurt your relationship than help it. Because you don't want to try something new. Well, a lot of women tend to put sex in love, so for you, this might be an inspiring idea, but for her, you might deepen your commitment to her by making this threesome for you. Even if you say it in advance, it will happen. Understand that your girlfriend may see a threesome as a sacrifice to win your love and further commitment to her.

 

Is there anything else to consider? Especially if your relationship is already "stuck in a rut," bringing someone else into the bedroom could mean your partner ends up choosing that person over you. You may already have a very hot sex life, but know that sometimes your partner will prefer the third paragraph to you. On my relationship advice BBS, I received questions from heartbroken men asking for my help after a threesome. Math isn't always right. Sometimes, by subtracting one of you, a group of three becomes a group of two is the best way to be in a relationship. That said, if your relationship is in a healthy state and you just want to give it a shot, then you should be heading toward the three realms anyway. Here's how:

 

1. Find a third person
No doubt, whoever you eventually decide to invite to your threesome will play a crucial role in the threesome experience. So you and your partner need to choose wisely. The first step is to be consistent about what type of third party you are looking for and why.

 

Someone you know:

 

First, inviting someone you know to be the third person has several obvious advantages and disadvantages. For example, if it's your female friend, be prepared to be criticized. Even the most apathetic woman may feel a certain way about your suggestion that your so-called "Platonic" female friends join in your celebration. Even if your lady suggests it, it's probably a trap you're walking into. Basically, you can't do that. If the third person she suggests happens to be someone she's friendly with, it's still a tricky situation. So you need to use your best judgment.

 

Second, here are a few questions to ask yourself about her friend who volunteered for the role: did she say anything off the cuff that suggested she was jealous of this potential third person? For example, have you asked her about her girlfriend's evening out? Her response was that every man in the bar was hitting on her friends. If so, it's probably a sign that once the threesome is over, you're accused of liking that friend more than you should -- like "all the other guys do." Of course, there will always be exceptions, and it's entirely possible that one of your friends will become the ideal third person, and everything will work out -- even if it's all over. But in general, the third that you don't know about is safer.

 

A stranger:

 

If you want a random stranger to be the third person, you have two choices: either go to a bar and search, or use a dedicated dating site for threesome finders to find threesome sex and hook-up relationship for fun. What are the benefits of looking for a third using the traditional pub search method? You can tell if the three of you have chemistry, and you and your partner can talk to each other before you get close. Of course, whether or not the person you're approaching is ready, it's a challenge that you don't have to deal with if you choose the dating site route. But spending the night outside with your partner, looking for someone you want to bring home, is sexy in itself, and obviously, even if you don't bring someone home, the two of you will do it later. Not bad.

 

If you're searching the web, try 3nder, a threesome app for singles and couples. Through the site, you can search by distance, age and gender, and you can only be matched if both parties are interested in each other. The only difference is that you and your woman have the same profile, and you're looking for a third person. Pro tip: meet potential third parties before making a commitment. Like online dating, some people seem to be a perfect match through text and photos, but when you're face-to-face, a lot is missing -- whether it's the lack of chemistry or the photos in their profile are a little misleading. Also, you may want to vet this person before inviting them to your home.

 

Now read Part 2 to learn more about the rules of threesome!